So, yesterday we found out about a beautiful baby boy that we fell in love with the moment we saw him. He was born in December and his name started with a B, all signs to us that it was "meant to be." The only hurdle was that the monies needed were quite a bit higher than we had budgeted. But we knew that for the right baby we could pay more than our budget; we would make it happen. But we had questions, and no one to answer them. The other agency answered some but we were waiting to hear answers to our main questions still. We contacted our lender to see what we could do about raising the amount on our loan. We were waiting on a reply from them and then we could send off our profile to be seen by the birth mom. The other agency had sent a letter saying that she had some profiles already, but that we could be in the second batch.
So anyway, I got up this morning to an email from our consultant saying that they already had enough profiles. How in the heck did they get enough profiles in the 12 hours since I got the information? Maybe they are all right there near where the baby was born? No one gave us any other options of delivery other than mailing it overnight. I am baffled about how this works I guess.
Our consultant tells us that the first couple situations are to help us see how things work. But what if one of those situations that she sees as "practice" is the right one? This was the first situation that I saw being right for us. I am left feeling a little said and rejected. We didn't receive the help we thought we would.
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